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writes:Why am I thinking about him ALL the time (when I wake up / go to sleep, in dreams, eating, driving etc!) I used to kind of date this guy, and we really liked eachother but no way loved eachother / werent that affectionate, didn't last very long.However, since that we've had no contact and I may NEVER see him again (a mutual now regretful decision!) I literally can't stop thinking about him in every way shape and form. I've kind of developed an obsession with him and would do anything to see / hear from him again, but when I was with him I was never that bothered?! However, any guy I've met / seemed interested in me since doesn't comparePLEASE how do I get over this and get on with my life?! At the time I didn't think I was that bothered about him! Reply to this Question
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reader, brokenheartz  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 You want what you don't have. Grass is always greener on the other side, etc. You just need to realize that it's your mind playing tricks on you. Find someone new, there's plenty of people better than him don't worry.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 The only way to get over someone is to start a life where that someone plays no part.
However, I'm always in favor of love. Why don't you contact him and see if you can work things out?
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reader, nologo  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Such things you described are familiar.
Reason for this is that you did change.
Fast decision to dump him caused you feel the way you do now.
You will get over this only when you learn to understand that everyone is different and you should not compare boyfriends.
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