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I didn't give her the attention she wanted but now I'm not sure I can forget her

Q.   I am a south Asian man.Our family values are bit different.for example our family or few family members might be financially depended on us.Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to other men.I like a white girl.But it was too ...

A.   9 January 2013: Thank you for your support.Actually I am planning to meet her in sometime. At least I want her to be my friend.... (read in full...)

Do white girls expect boys to propose first?

Q.   I want to know whether my Co-worker loves me.I am a south Asian.she is a white girl.Do white girls expect boys to propose first?Or am I mistaking her friendship towards me.But I heard once she was singing my name with hers.I never had a girl ...

A.   8 January 2013: "Propose as in marry or ask out?"Another co-worker asked me when I am going to get married. She was also there. I told I will marry after I buy a home for me. Suddenly she told me "what about half-half". I could not respond anything. But I realised ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but I've been obsessing over this co-worker in my head. Is it because I miss "the chase"?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for the last six years. We pretty much became adults together; we started dating after high school, went through college at the same time, and started our careers at the same time. We've shared everything together, ...

A.   7 January 2013: Take your time.Follow your heart.Don't over analyse things. ... (read in full...)

He thinks of me as his little sister but I love him. What do I do?

Q.   This summer I met a guy at a camp (he was one of the staff) and we really get on well. I'm 15 and he's 22. We lived together in a residence with some other few people. He calls me his little sister, so I call him by big brother. I know he cares ...

A.   7 January 2013: I think you should tell him that you love him.it will calm your mind.Does not matter what he going to think.Falling in love with a 7 years older guy is not unusual.Therefore he will not think bad about you.It is not easy to find real love always. ... (read in full...)

Is it ok for a Indian man to date/marry a white woman?

Q.   I have met a nice Indian man. I am a white female and have heard some rumours that Indians can not date/marry white woman. I am not actually looking towards marriage yet as im only 20 yrs old. He has sent me love songs and he seems real into ...

A.   7 January 2013: I am a Indian. Yes. It is ok to marry. But Indian values are bit different. For example, his family or few family members might be financially dependent on him. You need to accept that. Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to o... (read in full...)

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