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anonymous
writes:I cheated on my husband and can't deal with the guilt.I want a divorce but he does'nt.What should I do?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Nobody can really give you a decent answer because you gave very few details.
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reader, rcn +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Do you want a divorce because of the guilt or because you are out of love with him
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 O.K. first why do you want a divorce. If your husband is prepared to forgive you the least you can do is try and repair your marriage. He obviously loves you enough to forgive and forget.
So you need to find out why you cheated? Is this a habit or a one off?
Do you still love him? If so then that's another reason for not splitting up.
You need to talk and talk and talk, find out what lead to the cheating, is there something missing in your relationship which needs to change? Talk to your husband about this.
Basically, running away will not solve anything, the guilt will probably get worse. Your husband has given you a second chance , unless there's existing problems in the relationship that can't be resolved - I would suggest you take your second chance while its still on offer.
Good luck.,
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Does he know that you cheated on him? If not, tell him and see what happens.
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