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female
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anonymous
writes: Ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and I have still not met his parents, all though we do come from to different racial backgrounds, Im am white and he is asain. I love him so much and I really do want to meet his parents, and he still refuses to tell them. I do everything for him, and our relationship is serious. He tells me that he will tell them in time but I do not believe him. Do you think is he ashamed of me? or am I just being paronoid and wait till he tells them. Please someone help me x Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, sexi +, writes (12 November 2007):
Hi
The way that i see it is that if a guy tells his parents/family about you then he is serious about you ( im not saying that your bf isnt) It is possible that things maybe very difficult for him now as his parents are probably strict and have strong religious beliefs. Are you prepared to follow his religion if you both get married?What is your bf's religion?
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey GuysHe tells me that 'why should they know about me im dating him not his parents'. So is he right?
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reader, sexi +, writes (8 November 2007):
Hi
Can you let me know what religion your bf is. I am asian as well.
Regards
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reader, cristin343 +, writes (8 November 2007):
5 years??? are you kidding me?
this is a serious problem.
i once dated a guy for 1 year and hid him from my parents. Why? because i knew they would not accept him and i was just dating him temporarily because it was so nice.
the bottom line is, if he really does want to be with you permanately... he will MAN UP and tell his parents about you.
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reader, rcn +, writes (7 November 2007):
I think after 5 years definitely time to meet the parents. There shouldn't be any "in time" junk. Who cares about the different backgrounds, it's your relationship not the parents.
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