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writes: This may seem silly but I would really appreciate help with this one.I have, not unlike other women, never reached orgasm.I'm comfortable with my self and happy trying to please myself, I get very turned on but nothing else.Im in an amazing loving relationship with a man that loves to take hours over pleasing me before pleasing himself.I also tried rabbit vibrators and still NO ORGASM!!Most of the time I don't even think about it, I enjoy sex with my partner and thats enough for me so I don't think its because i want it too much.But i would love to feel that explosion, that shaking inside, just once!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): You could go to a professional... like a sex therapist or something. Experiment with EVERYTHING you can think of. Have sex on top so you can control the motions precisely. Do kegel exercises (look them up on the net if you don't know what they are)- do them every day. Try clenching those muscles during sex, either keeping them clenched or clenching and relaxing, clenching and relaxing, etc... You should use a regular vibrator too, just use it on your clitoris, varying pressure and intensity until you feel something. Also, try tensing up your leg muscles, or have your man "massage" your ass (this stimulates blood flow).
Good luck!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 I'm sorry, but there's no magic spell we can cast on you to have one. The only advise I can give you is changing positions in four play. When you're getting excited and feel it raising give a sign to your boyfriend so he knows to focus on that spot, and when getting real excited I heard relaxing helps too.
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reader, Kait  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 You know, that's something a lot of women go through. You know when you were a teenager and desprately wanted a boyfriend and as soon as you stopped looking he came along? It's the same thing here. Stop focusing on it and thinking about it and once you relax it WILL happen. I can guarantee it!!
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