I caught my girlfriend cheating, but I still love her

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years. She was my first everything and we loved each other so much we didn't go a day without each other. we had a very strong relationship. I never talk to any girls once I met her. I didn't really like her at first but then we fell in love. We have done so much together and I have done so damn much for her. but then she went off to college a week ago and the second day she's there I have reason to suspect she cheated on me. she said she was going to a friends dorm and needed to study, but school did even start yet! I was texting her all night and she didn't text me till around 6 am the next day saying she was going back to her dorm. she wouldn't tell me what she did. then two days later she said she has a new friend and that he was going to her dorm. she told me she just met him. and then once he was there she completely ignored me. I kept calling her and no answer. but then I remembered she was still on yahoo and the settings she had were to automatically accept video calls. so I made a video call and I could not believe what I saw. I just watch her have sex with another Guy. and later that day she told me he was there for less then 5 min and they just talked. I clearly caught her and she denies. I don't know what I should do. I still love her but at the same time I don't trust her. she tells me that she's scared to see me so we have to meet at a public place. but she goes to some guys dorm that she doesn't know and isn't scared? please help me.

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