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30-35,
*pongie08
writes:Im 18 yaers old, I have only had sex three times and I havent had an orgasm yet. Im thinking its something wrong with me. How many times does it take before I can have an orgasm? What does it feel like? Also the third time I had sex we did it for like an hour and still no orgasm. Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): most women only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation this can be achieved with foreplay, or masturbation.Some women go through their whole life without ever achieving an orgasm. The best way to enjoy sex is to experiment with someone you trust. If you worry about actually having an orgasm you wont have one, instead find out what works for you, alone or with your partner. This takes time. but believe me will be worth it in the end.
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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 the 2 that have written to you have said it all.
All that i can say is goodluck and once again relax and have fun its a wonderful sensal thing
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (3 July 2007):
All Orgasms are about Clitoral-Stimulation, and the G-Spot really isn't too important at this point in your sexuality, later on it will be helpful to understand it's role in your orgasms. You also shouldn't feel that there is something wrong with you either. It is a fact, That only about one woman in three is orgasmic with intercourse. And you just happen to be that one out of three. So you need to become an intimate friend with your clitoris. Where it's located, And the best time to see it is when your vagina has fully opened up. It's a small button of flesh at the upper junction of your fully opened vagina,where the lips come together. You,Also the one who is giving you sexual pleasure,regardless of their gender, needs to become intimate with your clitoris. Do keep in mind that the clitoris is a very delicate organ. And care needs to be taken when using the fingers to stimulate this vaginal jewel. And in your case you'll need to use Direct- Finger-Clitoral-Stimulation to achieve your orgasms.There is a better way to enjoy your orgasms, and that is by Oral-Sex. If you have a willing partner The tongue is the greatest penis a man, or woman, ever had.It won't let either of them down, Erection- Failure for him, and a nice warm,and wet tongue that says: "I Love you" best of all an oral-penis,unlike a man's dry Joytoy,Penis that can cause vaginal soreness. His penis stroking your vagina, It is only indirectly stimulating your clitoris, His tongue will always be directly stroking your Joytoy, clitoris. Once you have had your orgasms,He can then go on to have penile-vaginal sex, But he has first taken care of your sexual needs first And it is a wiseman who takes care of a woman's needs before his own.
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