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writes:I am in a new relationship and well this is really my first time in a relationship so I have so many questions .... the man I am with now has changed how he is with me ... he has gone from sending text messages and emails... and telling me he cares all the time to just once and awhile... does this mean he is losing interest or is it the "comfortable" stage that I have read about in some of these posts on here. those were the things that attracted me to him and now its just not happening as often as it was. what does this mean?
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reader, SJGreen  +, writes (3 July 2007):
It may depend on how long the two of you have actually been in a relationship, but the smart answer is on the fact that he may have grown comfortable with you. This is, like daniel said, a good thing.
If it gets to be "too" comfortable to you though, it never hurts to spice or change it up. Instead of your routine, movie night or place you always order food from, or whatever has become as commonplace as "I love you" switch it up one night. A nice little pop every now and then can help you feel that liveliness that you think you're missing. But you'll learn you aren't.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 I think he's in the "comfortable" stage. This should be good news, though.
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