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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I like to scream when I come. My boyfriend asks me not to make too much noise because there is an elderly lady living next door. Not long his neighbour complains about it. I feel embarassing and bad to wake her because we always make love after midnight. My boyfriend covers my mouth sometimes and it spoils it. He is very good in bed and I just cant help it. Am I normal or not. Please advise.
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reader, lolbean  +, writes (6 October 2008):
Use a gag :).
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Perhaps you could have a bit of sound proofing put in. Might cost a bit, but if you're going to invest in any lifestyle improvements, this is the one for you. I'm sure the elderly lady next door will thank you for it. And you will be able to scream to your heart's content.
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reader, uberpinkii +, writes (26 June 2008):
 lol dont worry that you cant help it, its normal..
to cut a long stor short..
the old lady should know how it is xD get her some earmuffs or something..
dont stop enjoying juste because of some old woman that sleeps light..
i personally enjoy ppl knowin we are doing it, no shame hunny..
Me and my boyfriend recently went camping and we had sex alot in a tent that isnt keeping any noise from the caravanners by us..
At the end o the day. people wnt confront you, the old lady wont nock on your door and give you THE TALK . wh worry :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): The 'Poor old person' probably has a smug smile on their face remembering days gone by!
Everyone was young once. But I do get your point, and to make a racket after midnight might be considered a bit unreasonable! I suppose they could call in the council noise abatement people with their 'decibel counter' if it got that bad.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Am I missing the point here? No one else seems to have acknowledged the fact that there is a poor old person who has to listen to your ridiculous screaming every night.
If you know that it wakes her up then why don't you stop being thoughtless and selfish and do it a time when you know it's not going to bother her too much.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (30 November 2007):
You are really lucky to have a man that makes you go da whole nine yards.Just try to bite the pillow as you come and not his hand because you may end up hurting him.Try making love elsewhere and at other times.
WOW!!! Let your man share the secrets.I'm sure there are lots of guys out there who would give anything to do to their partners what your man does to you!!!!!!!!
Take care.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Hey Im a screamer too, and living in a terraced house and having four kids int her neighboring rooms, it can get difficult.
I usually bite down on the duvet or a pillow or my hand etc. If you bite down on something, you can still scream, but its not so loaud as you dont have the megaphone of a wide open mouth to amplify the sound.
So, find something to bite on :D Try not to bite him though, I did once and it made him bleed hehe. Other wise, xmas is comming up, get the old dear next door a pair of earmuffs lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): I used to have a neighbour like you. She didn't so much scream as howl. Like a wolf on a full moon. Very loud too, and they always had their bedroom window open at night. I didn't mind too much but it did cause our dog to reply in similar fashion, which in turn woke up our other neighbours and their dogs which also joined in. A bit of a chain reaction if you like.
All very amusing at times.
Normal? Yes, I'd say so, and what an ego boost for your boyfriend - at least the neighbours will be assured he's doing a good job!
Phil
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reader, missmel34 +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Hey there,
Yes I'm a screamer too. I've tried burying my face into his chest, or if I'm face down, a pillow. Sometimes it works. Also told people I live with/neighbours I suffer from terrible leg cramps at night..... Of course they probably don't believe me, but what the hell!
M
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reader, pyan +, writes (30 November 2007):
Hinot sure if this will help but go for it, my wife has been very noisy all our married life. she too enjoys it best when she is free. and when we stay at friends she has the same problem and has tried to hide it. as she as got older she's not bothered who hears her. it turns me on knowing they hear us so not sure about your b/fmy wife says, the old lady may not hear you and you may be worrying for nothing but sex is better enjoyed to ones own way forget about them and enjoy.my wife says if you would like to discuss futher make conatct with us
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