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writes:I have a question. Is it normal that I can't forget about the foreplay? Because honestly, he is my first boyfriend at my twenties and the first time someone kissed me on the LIPS!!!!!!! And I really liked it. Also, he is the first one who touched my breasts and even my private part yet we didn't have sexual penetration. And this is also the first time I give someone a BJ!!!!!!! I'm sorry but I just want to know if its normal because I can't stop thinking about it. And to be perfectly honest, I am too shy to share this with you because I think this is inappropriate but I need some of your opinions.
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reader, kenny +, writes (16 August 2021):
 Yes this is very normal, its your first time so of course you are going to think about it.
Its good you stuck at foreplay and never rushed into full blown sex.
Only progress in to sex when you are ready, if it does not feel right do not go ahead with it.
Most importantly enjoy your new experiences.
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reader, Mikal  +, writes (15 August 2021):
Penetration does not have to be the end all for all experiences. Many a lovemaking session has commenced without any generation. Kissing, touching, loving, can be just as fulfilling as anything. Do what you feel is right
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 August 2021):
 Pretty normal. He is your first sexual partner. Imagine you live in a place where fruits are uncommon and then one person hand you a strawberry, then a raspberry, a banana, apple... You will REMEMBER that and the person.
I agree with YCNBS, BE safe and do not have unprotected sex.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (15 August 2021):
 Of course it is normal. This is your first sexual experience. Why would you NOT think about it?
Just a work of caution: make sure you are fully prepared for this going further and absolutely insist on contraception when/if it does. Nothing puts a dampener on your lust like an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy. Have some condoms in your pocket and make sure he uses them.
Apart from that, enjoy.
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reader, Tinacandida +, writes (14 August 2021):
 If both parties are consensual then nothings innapropriate. Just enjoy what you have, im sure things can only get better.
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