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writes:Does this guy like me?I have a friend that I've known for a couple of years but recently he's started acting differently and I'm not sure why.My friends all think it's because he like me but I think he might just be doing it to get a reaction out of me because I tend to get annoyed quite easily.He's always trying to put his arms around me or hug me, and he like kissing me on the head and on my hand and I thought he was just being friendly, but now I'm not sure. Whenever he sees me, he always comes over to talk and always claims that He loves me everytime I'm nice to him.We talk quite a lot generally, atleast a couple of times a week if we're not in school and he tends to flirt quite a lot and make a lot of sexual comments intentionally. Any ideas, why he's behaving like this?
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Couple of reasons.
Maybe he does see you in a different way now and wants to take it further. You have to ask him and find out if you are uncomfortable.
Maybe he is so comfortable around you, the "friendship" boundaries have become blurred. If you don't want this then you have to put him back in his place and tell him to have some respect!
Finally, it could be that he is not willing to find a partner and he sees you as an easier option to flirt with (because he knows you) and get his fix.
In any case, if its something that's bothering you, you should talk to him about it and find out what is causing this change in behavior. If he is a true friend, he will talk to you honestly about it.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Maybe he sees you in a different way now, as a girl who is worth flirting with.
Why not challenge him on this? Find out, if you are so curious!
'Drew, you sure are being flirty. Are you ever going to get around to asking me out or is this all I can expect?' Smile brightly and keep your tone light.
If it's bothering you, just shrug off the contact and don't smile back at him when he's flirty. Or come out with some deflating comments and make it clear that you are not interested.
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