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*atiemariex3
writes:So I just broke up with my boyfriend that I have been dating since Feb. 5th because he just wasnt the one for me. Plus I swear he was bipolar or something because one minute he would be yelling at me over nothing and the other second he wants sex or is apolgizing. I didnt like the way he did that and everybody said he was a player so I thought I am done with this and I told him we should just be friends. Now he said he is going to spread all these rumors about me and make everybody hate me. I dont know what to do. =( =( Somebody help me! =( If you have any questoins please ask and I will update on it if i didnt fill in what you needed for the advice. I got his number blocked from talking to me and i got his facebook blocked and deleted from my account so i cant deal with his problems. Im not friends with the people who he is friends with so i will never get a chance to defend myself. He will just tell his side of the story. This is so immature he is a senior this year and is doing this. What do I do?? =( help
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 March 2010):
What a loser. Seriously, I'm glad you saw the light. The chances are that he won't spread rumours, he's most likely saying that to get at you, which he is. On the off chance that he does, tell everyone you had to dump him because he'd cheated and may have got an STD that you didn't want to catch.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 If anyone asks, tell them that he has a tiny penis and had no idea how to give you an orgasm.
Then, let him fry in the fire of his own making..............................
He will rue the day that he crossed swords with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): He is just trying to control you. Ignore him and make him believe you don't give a F8$%. The more you get upset, the more he gets the reaction he wants out of you. Just ignore him and move on with your life. That is the only thing you should do!
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 This is sad, and it shows that he is very immature. Unfortunately, you really can't stop him from spreading rumors. People that know you won't believe what he says, and for others, well..if they really aren't your friends anyways, who cares what they think? YOU know the truth. Be glad you got away from this jerk when you did. Its sour grapes, and he's just being a class A jerk about the breakup.
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reader, How2Heart +, writes (11 March 2010):
When you break-up with a guy you hurt them. You have to get that they are going to hate you for a little while.
Yes he is being extremely immature,
Yes, I completely side with you, you are justified to get out of that relationship, but if you aren't friends with the people he will talk to- then what does it matter?
When those people meet you, you will prove the rumours wrong!
Worst comes to worst you could just contact him. Tell him that it would be very childish for him to spread rumours about you and that no one believes a player anyway.
Alternatively, you could just spread worse ones about him.
It really depends on what level you want to play this.
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