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writes:So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We're freaky and adventurous, him so more than I, and we got on the topic of threesomes. I'm very shy and still learning things about me. I don't mind being with a woman but men are my main attraction. We had a 4some with good friends of ours and ever since my bf has been looking for a girl for us. Our pet. He'd look online, ask around, but whomever he suggested, to me was not what I was looking for. Tonight, we met up with an old friend and he talked to her and discovered she was down to be in on our fun. I'm not attracted to this woman, she's pretty and sweet but I don't become aroused upon thinking of her. My bf was disappointed I didn't like her and was frustrated. He says the girl I want doesn't exist and I don't have a type. I probably don't, but I don't want her to be just somebody. I want her to be smart, interesting, open minded, and yes a bangin body with ass and titties to spare. My bf said he doesn't want to look anymore because of my high standards and his growing disappointment. I want to prove to him that I am down but I don't know when I'll be ready and satisfied. I don't know where to look, how I'd approach her. I'm stuck, any suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx guys, I'm going to pace myself until I'm happy with a resolution, he's agreed to back off so we'll see what happens ^^
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reader, totty-flossy  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 It sounds to me as though your looking for something more than sex with this woman? Why would you want someone so perfect? If it is just for sex simply go for someone who you think is good looking and up for some fun! I wouldn't go for somebody too amazing because you still want to be the "main attraction" in your boyfriends eyes!
If your boyfriend is becoming impatient then its time for you to take control and choose a girl yourself! Ask your boyfriend to let you choose somebody and in your own time and that you will tell him when you have picked someone! I'm sure there are websites you can join and browse for potential "partner" and when you find someone you like just go for it! But just try not to be too picky! remember its just sex your looking for not love :) xx
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reader, N91 +, writes (9 June 2011):
 You sound very open minded and adventurous and should appreciate that he's found someone like you. With him getting annoyed at basically not being able to have sex with someone else, you've got every right to tell him to 'feck off' basically.
Think about it, you're allowing him to have sex with another woman and he's getting peed off that you're not choosing someone quick enough, if he carries on, just tell him no, you are giving him a great sexual treat and he needs to appreciate that...take as long as you need to choose someone, if he's getting pushy or whiny, don't forget you can just tell him no - remind him how lucky he is that he has a girl willing to have a threesome!
Hope this helps! X
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