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anonymous
writes:A few questions about men and sex:1. My partners sometimes produces a lot of pre-cum, sometimes none or very little during foreplay. If there is little or no pre-cum does that mean he is not as excited?2. My partners ejaculation is not overly forceful, it sort of just dribbles out mostly. I have seen it come out much faster once or twice and hit the headboard. So is this also due to arousal levels?For help my partner is 41 in VERY good shape looks about 30, not a smoker, no drinking, great diet, very active and not on any medication, however he IS stressed a lot these days due to money issues. We have been together eight years, and I think he may be getting bored of me, he hates it when I try to give him bj as a surprise during the daytime or if I come up and touch him and try to initiate sex. He will only do it at night before bed IN bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011):
If I want to have a forceful ejaculation then one of two things needs to happen (maybe both):
1. I should not ejaculate for at least 2 days
2. I need to be teased for a long time before ejaculating so that it "builds up"
My guess is that your boyfriend is ejaculating too often or too soon. This has nothing to do with your level of attractiveness. I don't understand why he is not excited by the prospect of doing you as a surprise, though. I wish my wife would do that JUST ONCE.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Does it mean he's not interested? NO! Not at all. Sometimes I leak like a faucet. Other times you couldn't squeeze anything from the turnip. don't worry about it.Additionally... some guys are SHOOTERS... and some are dribblers (occasionally shooting) so shooting/dribbling isn't real an indicator either.As for the initiation and only wanting sex before/in bed... well that sounds like it's just where/when he prefers to do it. The only way around that is to work through it, generally by talking to him about it but even that might put him on the defensive - so to speak. Only you know how to really 'talk' to him about things of this nature. If anything, you might try a romantic weekend away some where.But the other two points, the pre-cum and the dribbling are not real indicators of arousal.
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