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*sweetxcheeksx
writes:Me and my boyfriend ryan are 15 and we have been on and off goin out with each other for about two and a half years.I have tried going out with other lads but i end up finishing with them because i like ryan too much.Just recently i went back out with him just over a week ago and after 4 days he totally blanked me turning his phone off and sleeping at this 24 year old girls house who i dont know whether hes doin anything with or if hes just using her because she gives him cannabis? I dont know whether to finish it with him again because i love him and i am so depressed when im not with him. please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): You have been going out with him on and off and now it is off so move on. He probably got sick of waiting around for you to make up your mind. You cannot blame him. You now want him back and he doesnt want to know, who can blame him. He isnt a toy that you put down when you are bored with it.
take care
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (28 October 2007):
it harsh but you should dump him. you say he blanked you......please he obviously has no respect for you and you deserve a lot better. if he felt the same way about you then it would work but ending and starting a relationship will make the relationship more complicated. let go i know its hard
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ellie
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (28 October 2007):
 hi Xsweetxcheeksx.
You really do not want to bother with a cannabis smoking junkie, you are too wonderful a person to be worrying about this looser, must be something loose in his head giving you up for the weed, and some one who is old enough to be his big sister, or worse,(eeeerrrr) come on babe sort yourself out, your at a great age and need to be loved not be put down, and used in this way.
Get him out of your head, because he is not thinking of you, he does not now what love is, if he did why would he not treat you this way, get out and about , find a new BF, show him you are strong and more mature than he is, and capable of moving on and finding some who is more suitable for you.
Just think in time to come you will have a wonderful life, maybe a husband and children, and he will be no ware, like the looser he is now.
hope this help you, have a great life.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (28 October 2007):
 This guy obviously doesn't love you or even care about you. Forget about him. I know its a bit harsh but its the truth. He has no respect for you at all and obviously no feelings for you. He is just using you and it sounds like he's using this other girl too. What is a 15 year old lad doing hanging around a 24 year old girl? He's also on cannabis which is not right for a 15 year old to be doing nevermind an older person. He sounds like bad news. It will be hard but you really do need to forget about him honey, he's not worth it. One day you'll come across someone who wants to love you and treat you right and you will probably let them pass you by as you are still obsessed with this ryan guy. You're only young yet so don't waste your life on this one guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I'm 19 and been there done that, got the t-shirt. Dump him and mean it, i know its hard but it will be better then having this kind or life not knowing whats happening with him. If he is taking drugs STAY AWAY. School is your priority its the most important thing to your future. Consentrate on school and plan what career you want for the future, and you will have it all a good life and thats the best revenge. He will probably end up in a grotty flat taking drugs trust me you don't want that. Have fun with your friends you dont need a new boyfriend enjoy been single and you will meet someone who loves you for you hunny. Trust me, hope this helps xx
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