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anonymous
writes:i am really in love with my male teacher. should i date him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2021): Your teacher is older than you are, of course. So, would you want to date someone who is willing to date someone who is not only his student but someone who is still a kid? You are young and immature, and yes, STILL a kid. A guy who dates someone your age... who is a kid... who is in a position of authority, would be a total CREEP. And likely be a total creep with other girls. I sincerely hope, in your case, he is not a creep, who has some kind of mental illness, where he would date a kid AND a student, and ruin his professional reputation and career. Nothing good would come of it. You are immature and this is a silly little crush. If he has any brains in his head, he would see it the same way and not give you a second glance. Kids like you who are female are just big troublemakers. Because you need to prove your attractiveness and sexuality to men. At your age, that is all you feel you have going for you. That is all there is to you. Which is sad. When you get older and more experienced, you will see there is much more to life than turning an older male's head. And that there is so much more to a woman than opening her legs. You seem selfish and impetuous and very insecure. Why don't you focus on your studies and your future? Newsflash: Any woman has the power to prove her attractiveness at any age. So what? It does not make you special. Just makes you easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2021): Is your teacher married? Has he told you he wants to date you? For all you know you are not his type, too empty headed and young. Think your teacher prefers grown ups.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (19 June 2021):
 NO!
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (19 June 2021):
 Short answer: no way in hell.
Long answer: given your total lack of information, I suspect this may just be a wind up because you already know how most aunts and uncles on this site will react so you are having a bit of fun with us.
However, I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt on that score and to assume your question is genuine. Firstly, your statement that you are "in love" with someone you barely know shows your immaturity. You have a crush at best, or an obsession at worst. Neither equates to love, which is something which grows from mutual respect and support. Secondly, do you know if your teacher is even free to date you? And lastly - and most importantly - your teacher could have his career ruined by dating you. Is that how much you "love" him?
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reader, N91 +, writes (18 June 2021):
 There is no way this would end well and could potentially end up in your teacher being sacked.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2021): No,no,no. Bad idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2021): NO!!!
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reader, kenny +, writes (18 June 2021):
 You teacher could get into an awful lot of trouble, and even be the end of his teaching career if he was found to be dating you.
You don't love you teacher, this is a crush that you think is love. Crushes don't last forever. Just let this fizzle out of its own accord.
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (17 June 2021):
 Don't go there. NO!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 June 2021):
 No, thousand times no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2021): No!!!!
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