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I am becoming so dry down below and it's wrecking my confidence and my sex life with my boyfriend. What can I do?

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Question - (21 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, lately when i've had sex it has been getting really dry, then sore and painful. I had chlamidea but i got the treatment so i dont think its that, then i thought it was thrush and used the treatment so i dont think its that. It was fine in the begining but after a while i got really dry and couldn't enjoy it any more. please help its wrecking my confidence and my sex life with my bf

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007):

I have this problem too.......I get really dry....but even though theres a lot of forplay going on and I can make him cum before Im even wet...I wonder if this is due to my being on Effor

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (22 February 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntYour dryness is probably from the medication that you took. If you are taking diaretics (water pills) that could cause dryness. I found at the store a product called Replense....it is for vaginal dryness. it is in the form of inserts that you put into the vagina. Also there is a wonderful lubricant by the name of Astro Glide! (i tried K-Y liquid, but didn't like it as much) You can get a free sample from the internet. Just go to: www.astroglide.com and they will send you a sample.

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A female reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

x.Helpful.Cupid.x agony auntHiya.

Sorry to hear your so uncomfortable. Maybe this dryness is because when you have sex, your body releases alot of juices, so after it just dries up. Maybe try a non perfumed lotion or perhaps a prescribed cream from your doctor if its really bad. Also if you had clamidya, maybe get a test just to make sure. I know its hard having low confidence, but this wont be a long term thing!! Talk to your bf and explain, im sure he will understand. It could also be exema or a skin irritation.

Good luck & i hope it gets better xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007):

i have the same problem, i get real dry, but we use lubricants, its natural for some women, not to be moist, no need to worry, just try more foreplay before sex, and urinate before and after sex, this worked for me, other wise just stick to the lubricants, make it into a game, apply it to your hands and play with your partner, it should be less painfull when he enters you then

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