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*jf1989
writes:hi, i am almost 18 years old and i have NEVER kissed a girl. i know it is very rare and trust me you would not want to be me. i just want to know some possible reasons why i am such a loser. Reply to this Question
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reader, jonester45to +, writes (1 February 2010):
your not alone im also 18 and never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend many nights i cry myself to sleep and im the kind of person who just hates to cry so believe me man your not alone and i hope you find someone to make you happy =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): Me too! I'm 18 (a girl) and never kissed anyone (I like girls). I just haven't had the right opportunity; it's nothing to be ashamed of.
If you compare yourself to most people our age, you'll find that though they have been higher up in the "bases" than we have, some 70% of it was all just meaningless conformity. Perhaps you are looking to really feel something? If so, I'd say that makes you the opposite of a loser.
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reader, jackie69  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 You aint no loser mate!
I thought I was until last year. I didnt have my first kiss till i was 20 and it was worth the wait.
You cus go and kiss just anyone but it is worth waiting for a special someone and a special momment!
I have been with the guy i first kissed for 14 months now so i certainly did something right. lol
just hold on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): i'm 21 and never been kissed. i asked the same quesion ages ago and a 22 yr old said he never been kissed. it just comes naturaly. wanna hear a story of a loser. most "popular" guy in school in the footbll team, been kissed by loads of girls, BUT - last year he got punched in the face on his 18th birthday and got sent home from he pom a few week ago for being too drunk. unless that guy was YOU, then no you're not a loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): Dnt wory about it!!! Your first kiss wl cum naturally... take me mine woz at the age of 16!!!
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reader, jt100222 +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Trust me, If you were a loser you would have made out with up to 25 different people. Because you care about you and the other person doesn't make you a loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): Hi there ! first of all you are definitely not a loser. Not becasue you never kissed a girl means that you are less than other people. people are different in the way they feel and I think that you should take your time and when you feel that the time is right, then you go along with it. I wish you all the best and chin- up.......put a smile on your face.
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reader, ajf1989 +, writes (2 June 2007):
ajf1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the helpi know what type of girl i am looking for. i want an old fashioned girl who has never had pre-martial sex of any kind. other than that i pretty much would go out with anyone. i am not picky at all
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reader, AskEve +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Hey, who said you're a loser? So you're fussy, that's no big deal. The right person just hasn't came along yet or the right situation hasn't presented itself yet, nothing wrong with that. You need to be more confident and assertive, learn to love who you are, be PROUD of who you are!
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_confidence_tips.htm
Just because some of your friends are dating and bragging about their conquests doesn't mean you're odd if you haven't found the right person yet. It may be you're a bit shy or nervous. Read over the links I've given you, stand and look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself "you're looking good". Most of all DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, when the time is right, dating, kissing and sex will all come. Meanwhile just enjoy yourself with your friends and love who you are, enjoy listening to them brag and MOAN about their girlfriends lol.
Everyone has good qualities about themselves. Write down 5 of your good qualities then believe them! Get to know yourself more and exactly what type of girl you're looking for and most of all stop winding yourself up about it, it will happen when you least expect it, trust me! ;o)
Eve
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 June 2007):
 hia babe ur not a loser! dnt fink like that!! the girls around yoo maybe shy orr yoo mite just be shy.. orrr yoo may never have met the right person yoo wonna share that 'special' kiss wiv? there is nothin rare about it.. trust me babe! mail me if yoo wona talk x x i hope i helped x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Hi,You are NOT a loser. I am 24 female and the majority of my male friends did not kiss a girl until they were in there late teens to twenties. I imagine you may be shy with girls and get very nervous. Stop worrying about the fact that you have yet to kiss a girl and learn to love yourself. This is really hard trust me, but as soon as you begin you will start to blossom a self confidence and this will help you at first start talking to girls that you like and then that could lead to something else...No one is a loser but you have to make life work for you!
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