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writes:Dont realy where to start.Well i am married.Im in a sexless marriage.My husband sleeps, on the couch.I sleep in a bedroom.He hasnt touched or looked at me in over 7 years.I been hearing hubby likes men better or his gay or bi.I havent cheatted on him.But i been thinking about it.I have had offers by both sex's.Help me.................. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 His not touching you does not necessarily mean he has no interest in the female sex. But there's a huge problem here. HUGE as in HUMONGOUS. You should talk to him and see what the matter is, but I'm pessimistic about it. Whatever it is, it is huge and I don't think it will be solved with a conversation. Whatever it is that's behind his behavior, he's gotten away with it for too long to want to change.
It would be a terrible thing if he said he would change, but he needs "time" or something like that.
To be honest, I don't think there's a solution to your problem other than going away and having a real relationship with someone else.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (16 May 2010):
Have you TALKED to him about it? Who's been telling you this stuff? Does it have ANY CREDIBILITY or is it idol speculation?
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reader, The Great Mark Says +, writes (16 May 2010):
 Theres tons of reasons why it might be sexless. maybe you need to spice up the sex life. try something crazy like a 3sum, public sex, going to a nudist camp, etc...the other possibility is maybe he does have E.D. most men are very nervous or embarrassed to admit it.basically you need to sit him down and have a calm adult chat about the sexless issue. and that it is bothering you, and you want to do something about it. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Try sleeping on the couch with him!?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 May 2010):
I couldn't tell you whether he is gay or not. But something is terribly wrong here, and one way or another you need to do something about it. Don't cheat though. You'll lower yourself and he'll have a reason to get at you. You need to talk to him about it and warn him that unless it changes, you will have to leave him. And mean it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): Your well and truely being neglected!! You can do better!! Maybe you should just ask him? It sounds like there is something that isn't finctioniing
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