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anonymous
writes:i am working in an in-call escort service and i am married. i love my hubbie and we have a pretty good sex life, but he is getting older and wants sex less frequently. but that is no problem for me, since as an escort i am getting all the sex i want and more. i took up escorting after being married for 11 years and getting deep in debt on credit cards. my day job just didn't pay the bills. my husband was getting very despondent over the debts and i told him i would pay off the bills i created even if i have to sell my ass. i said this in front of his sister, joking of course, but she took me aside later and told me she could put me in touch with someone who could set me up if i was wanting to get serious about selling my ass. she admitted she had worked as a prostitute for several years to avoid bankruptcy and her husband was ok with it. she felt my husband would come around and accept what i would be doing. i thought about it a while and to be honest what sold me on the idea was the extra sex. my sis-in-law said it was the best perk she ever had on a job. i talked to her several times and finally asked her to introduce me to her friend. we met, found each other compatible and i agreed to start escorting that very day. she had a customer in a motel that was a regular, but the girl he wanted quit and she had waited to see if i was going to work out before scheduling a girl for him. i was nervous. i knocked on the door of his room and he let me in. i was relieved that he was not some wrinkled old gnome or something similar. it was an enjoyable experience and i was now a escort for real. my husband had the usual reaction when i told him that i wanted to be an escort, demanded i get the idea out of my head, don't do anything, etc. i took the bull by the horn so to speak and told him i had already been on a date and that it wasn't so bad, didn't affect how i felt about him, was the best thing for me to do since it would take less time than working two or three jobs. he finally gave in to me and after i had been escorting for a while, said he didn't really mind and was turned on by my meeting other men. he began wanting all the details and started asking me to have threesomes with him and a friend so he could watch me fuck another guy. i love what i do, but it is getting to me that my hubbie likes it as much or more than i do. i mean is this kind of weird or what. i know prostituting can be pretty addicting for a woman, but for the woman's husband???? i don't want to quit, i mean, i would really miss all of sex i am having. a lot of these guys really like making me cum. and the money is sooooo sweeeet too. but is my husband going to be a problem? should i just get used to it and help him with his fantasies like i do with my clients??? help me girls!!
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reader, Zeeta  +, writes (4 November 2012):
It is a proffesion,not being commited to anyone,,and not for the fun of it.strictly proffesional.husbands should respect,wifes decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): once your husband gets really used to the idea of your escorting, things will get better. don't give up what you want to do because all of these dummies think it is wrong. what do they know? if you want to have sex with men for money, honey, go for it. i do. my husband gives me no problems. my sweet pussy got him the bmw he drives. i have dates that pay me 1500 to 2500 dollars for 2hrs and i give them whatever they want. hell, for 2500 bucks, my husband would probably do anything they want. you threaten these men who condemn you.....you see, their wife or girlfriend might like to do what you are doing...they would lose that control society gives them. you are a scary babe. i have escorted, worked in a german brothel, stripped and did asian porn (husband was in the army). i have had a ball. Our house is almost paid off. College fund for the kids is paid off. cars are paid off. no debt. mastercard, visa, amex cards paid off. and my husband got to do what he wanted all his life...be a soldier. hey he gets a thrill out of shooting guns, being a tank commander, sleeping in the woods, shooting the main gun on a hot target. he was in the first iraq, kosovo, twice 2nd iraq. that is what he likes, he is proud of his stripes and me too. he gets the medals and i make the money and we are both happy. all these people who put down...tell them i got mine, foad!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): you are gross! i would divorce you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I feel sorry for your husband. He must have no self asteem left. First he voices his opinion on not wanting to prostitute yourself and you TOTALLY ignore him, now he has found a way to deal with it and you want him to change for you again. I don't think you have the right to tell him to do anything for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I have no idea what to say about this situation, but I have read that most of the women who work in the Nevada brothels are married. The work like 4 days a week at the brothel, living there and then spend the long weekend at home with their husband and sometimes children. And NO, I nave never been to one, nor even considered it. My wife and I like to read about things like that to see how others handle sex issues.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 This has to be a joke....You're worried about your husbands fantasies??? I'd be more concerned about HIV or whatever else you might get. If this true and I doubt it is, have you made your life better or worse. Somehow I don't think you'd know. You have to understand that 99.99999999 % of the women in the world would not see this as a viable way to pay bills.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): no! we dont all feel like that about multiple guys! for me personally sex is abot being with the person you love and sharing what no one else can, the physical part of love. I know not everyone is the same but your husband could be experiencing extreme jealousy and the only way he can come to terms with this is to join in. I think you should think about what sex means with your husband and what you get from being with customers, is it really worth your marriage even if you do enjoy it? one day you will have to end this and it may become as a surprise if you dont feel fulfilled by your husband, wouldnt it be better to put your fantasies into sex with your husband instead?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): How old are you really? Youre setting yourself up for a fall, your hubby will dump you and you will turn to drugs and sex, bet you it can happen if you stay in the buisness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I don't see the problem...You like escorting.Your husband likes you escorting.So... keep doing what you're doing?Why not have a threesome with your husband, too. Your rules.
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reader, tulipdame +, writes (28 October 2007):
Sexual boundaries are very dangerous to cross, one way or the other. It might have ruined your relationship with your husband already, something that is much trickier to fix than money issues.
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 October 2007):
 I'll tell you, I am really glad at the end you asked for advise from girls, I don't think you'd like to hear what I had to say.
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 October 2007):
I'll tell you, I am really glad at the end you asked for advise from girls, I don't think you'd like to hear what I had to say.
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