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writes: I have been seeing a younger man and we are considering getting intimate. He wants to. How will I know that he as a younger man will enjoy seeing me as an older woman naked? Ladies, do you have any experience with this? Any ideas for finding out if he would not be turned off by seeing me in the nude? Reply to this Question
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reader, CupidGirl826  +, writes (31 August 2009):
I'm younger, 22/F. But my last boyfriend (he's 29) had talked about when he was younger (18) he had relationships (mainly casual/intimate) with older women. He never talked about their body or the way they looked, the things he remembered was the good experience. Just meaning, they were more open minded and willing to explore things versus the women closer in his age. And their level of experience was much higher.Good Luck
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 Way way way back when I was 19 and working in the City, I was seeing a 47 year old woman who owned a recruitment business. The reason that we got together was because we could laugh and converse for hours on end, and just enjoyed each other's company. I could not see any flaws with her body when she was naked, and if there were any, I was too crazy about her to notice. When there is a true meeting of minds and spirits between two people, you see nothing except perfection, and feel nothing except complete bliss in the intimacy. Age, looks, backgrounds and race is irrespective in these types of relationships.Although we had no idea of how far the relationship could go, we simply enjoyed the months, holidayed in the sun together, and became huge friends as well as lovers. Of course, my friends sniped about the 'age gap', as did my family, and her friends were of the opinion that she was having some sort of crisis. In the end, we broke up because of the woman's daughter, who was older than me, and harassed her mother into ending things. Apparently, it was embarrassing for her to have a mother who was dating a young black man, and the neighbours were gossiping, especially as they could sometimes hear us at night. There was never any thought of 'how' she looked naked. All I wanted at times, was to GET her naked, and explore her body. She had a thing about her bum being too big, but I could not understand that. Enjoy the moment with him, and try not to listen to those who would criticise.
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reader, lovespice +, writes (24 August 2009):
First of all, focus on the positives.
He desires intimacy with you.
And it's probably not because he is curious about how you look in the nude as an older woman. If you have chemistry and you have the same desire for him then just remember it is about intimacy and not a body building contest.
You have what it takes to be desirable enough for him so don't sweat it. Besides, you have more experience and your maturity and sexuality probably turns him on more than anything. Enjoy yourself, be happy about who you are and don't worry about being nude in front of him. Your confidence is one of the things that turns him on. Don't let him down.
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