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writes: Okay so I guess at this point I have no choice but to try and get over this man that seemingly captured my heart. My question is, how do you get over someone you have to see every day? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 January 2013):
It will take much longer if you HAVE to see him every day.
I ask WHY do you have to see him every day....
work?
school?
transportation?
some of these can be changed
some may be temporary
so if it's work, maybe you can find a new position or ask for a transfer...
(and note to those that read this... this is why we do not want to DATE co-workers)
if it's transportation, maybe you can take an earlier or later bus/train
if it's school...when is the semester over.
keep busy
keep active
LIVE WELL and always look fabulous... talk to everyone smile and be happy...
it will pass with TIME. TIME is an amazing healer if you allow it.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (16 January 2013):
Getting over someone is never easy, not for anyone, espessially seeing them every day is even harder. All i can say is i know its hard now but things will get easier, time is the healer of all things. Sooner or later your wounds will heal and you will meet someone else who completely takes your mind off of him.
Good luck
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reader, mrswaldhauser +, writes (16 January 2013):
This is a very short question and doesn't leave much room for advice really unless you can expand on it a little? What happened with this man? What went wrong?
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reader, Dayzy +, writes (16 January 2013):
You may not or it may take a lot longer and be more painful. Can you change your situation so that you can move on? Every time you see him you will think about what you had. There are endorphins that are connected to feelings of romantic love. Every time you see this person they are stirred up again. Try and move away if you can to make it easier on yourself.
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