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writes: This is a follow up to my first question "My girlfriend has cheated on me yet i dont want to give up on her". I Thank the people who responded the first time your opinions were very good. She keeps sayin she loves me and that she wants to be my old self again. But how can I be my old self if he is always around, surely that is unfair of her? I wouldnt expect her to be comfortable with it if the shoe was on the other foot. Anyway we have agreed to have a break to think things through, but I walked past her house this morning and his car was parked outside. Do I jump to my conclusions again or is he "just sleeping on the sofa as a friend". I need to know if Im making a big deal of everything or am I justified in wanting him to be completely away from her and us?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Use the break to move on. Sorry, it does not sound good.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 I don't know, this girl sounds skeevy. And his car was parked outside of her house in the morning? I don't know, that's a little suspicious. I would've knocked on her door and said, "just wanted to say hi! I was in the neighborhood, and how could I pass up saying good morning to my beautiful girlfriend?".
This relationship sounds like it's full of doubt and trust issues. Why do you want to be in it? I think it's time to let her go and find a girl who doesn't have past flames parked outside of their house in the morning and around them all the time.
xxIndia
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