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writes:There are times when I feel very down, insecure and worried. I feel like no one would notice if I disappeared. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I feel very alone, you know the saying 'alone in a crowd' it applies very well to me because thats what I feel. I feel very lonely, and my friends arn't really helping because they don't really understand how I feel. My life feels very empty at times. I'm not too sure how to try and change all of this, because at times my life is amazing and I love it! But there are times when it feels empty and when it feels empty I don't know what to do. Any advice would really be appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this
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reader, aim  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Hmm. I believe you are askin the wrong question. Or so i think... I believe when someone disappears someone, even just one person, will notice, remember, and miss that you are gone or missing. The question is what they would do about it. I mean, i dont want you to be more lonely than you are now. But we all have our moments. I got lots of of those moments, to tell you the truth.
I agree with Mr. Anon below me. Maybe you are searching for the certain someone that can complete you or something. I get those too you know. And all i can do is ponder on it and take in everything, every feeling. Something i learned from a very good book is you have to flood your mind with what is really bothering you and be immensed in it. It can be a lot, or a just a simple thing. Once your brain is tired of thinking and thinking and imagining and imagining and all. It will stop. But it does not mean it will not come again. In your case, try to think and imagine yourself one day being absent in school or not being home for dinner. What would you parents and friends do? To what perimeters will they extend to search for you? Whatever. This is actually a psychology thing that can make you in peace with your mind and soul. So in summary, what i am advicing is to be a peace with your mind.
Just keep surviving kid. And you'll eventually find what you're looking for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): well all i can say is that you are not alone. i am in the same situation as you, like you feel something is missing or maybe a special someone. i am the same, i just go off into my own world and watch everything around me and it's like they dont even see me.
things must get better, hang in there!! xx
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 hey,
i think you have been threw a breakup or lost a freind that is why you are feeling down!
bu it is ok( maybe you heard this a million times)...
try going out more and meeting new people it really helps. try doing some sports it makes you feel more confident.
and join new activities, you won't even have the time to think that you are lonley!
everyone has this experience from time to time as it turns out, your are having it now!
good luck byeXXX
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reader, vampire-kisses +, writes (12 November 2007):
 well seriously your problem is like so many of my friends and me half the time. i know the feeling "would anyone really miss me if i wasnt here just now?" well seriously you either stay quitet or do what i do and be loud ans coulourul so everyone notices you (yea not the best as someties you feel like your making a fool of yourself). i think it must just be part of being a teenager! just have to tell yourself that things wont always be wonderful and fun. when your upset and feel alone you really need a good friend to explian things to find someone who feels the same to trust and share with. i dont know if that was any good advice but if you need more just ask me =) xx xx xx
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