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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend who I have been going out with for over a year and a half. I love her so much and would do anything for her. Now lately, we have been messing around saying sex stuff. But obviously cos we r both gay. (im bi and she is a lesbian), but she has been talking about fingering etc. I am okay with it, but when it actually comes to it, I am scared that I will back away. I don't think I'm ready for it, but she is really up for it. I mean, she has already been down my trousers, but not my actual boxers, which Im fine with and she has been up my top, but not under my bra but again, Im fine with. I would rather wait till we r both 16, but I don't know what to do. Help? But I love talking about, and I love having her hands up my top and down my trousers, but when it actually comes to actually touching, I kinda' panic a little bit.... Help?
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reader, lilly123 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 it will panic you thinking about it but its like the others said you will know when your ready and its true you do know. Just talk to her if she loves you how much you love her she will wait as long as it takes just dont do it if it not what you really wont.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): hello babe, i can only agree with what they other 'aunt' has said. You'll know when you are ready so just take things at your own pace.
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reader, Lovely Sweet Laura  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Wait until you are completely comfortable. If she cares about you she will understand. There is no need to rush it. The experience will be much more enjoyable for you if you are ready and you will know when you are. best of luck
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