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*apphireLily
writes:I'm finding out there is a couple other guys who like me, but I know I am not attracted mentally or physically.I'm thinking this is because, I like Bob (code name) and I know he likes me so, I'm kind of putting other guys on hold for him. But I kind of also like where we are, friends who have many things in common, who both like each other and can tell each other things we don't trust with others.So, how do I tell the other guys I'm not interested?Just say "Thanks for being straight-foward, but I'm in a complicated situation right now." ? Reply to this Question
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reader, SapphireLily +, writes (5 August 2009):
SapphireLily is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks!I appreciate your feedback!
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 I don't think you should say you're in a complicated situation right now (if you can avoid it). When you like someone (particularly in your teenage years) most people will cling onto any little bit of hope they have, and telling them the situation is complicated gives them the idea that eventually that might change.
I think the best approach is to tell them you are only interested in them as a friend.
Good luck :)
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 thats a good way to put it.or literally just say you are not interested or you only see that person as a friend say you dont want to ruin your friendship
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