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writes:im 13 me and my bf have been going out for almost 2 months now.i realized dat hes a little horny all the time but is a little shy about feelings. we kiss a lot but i dont think he likes doing it. i feel like he is starting to loose interestt of me. although he tells me dat he loves me and even said dat hes falling in love with me, but i never had the same answer.i felt that way inside, but never said it. now im making my feelings more clear, but i dont think he likes that. i was thinking about him a lot so recently i went to his house but it was like i wasnt wanted. i think he thinks that im moving too fast, i guess he wants space. he hasnt talked to me since then and now its been almost a week. today he said hi but thats all he said he didnt even say another word to me. does he want to end it? if so, wat can i do to prevent it? i really seriously love him and i may not entirly be sure about that,but thats one of the few words that describe wat i feel.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 He did not tell you that he wanted to end it . He could be distant or cold for now or it is winter at his home.
Your perceptions could be wrong. You should not act clingy because it could be a turn off.
Don't chase after him and wait to see if he will come to you . If he does come back , he is still yours, otherwise, it is a foregone conclusion that you are no more in his heart.
If a tree is falling, you can only shout 'Timber!' and run for your life.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (11 March 2010):
My advice is if a guy starts showing you he doesn't want you then you can't change his mind. The best thing is to dump him before he dumps you first. Never appear too eager for a man. So just tell him you don't think its working out then walk away. Don't look down or gloomy. Just carry on with your life. If he wants you then he will make a bigger effort.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 I dont think he loves you. He was after using you which is not good.
Find yourself a boyfriend who appreciates you, dont rush things and enjoy the time you spend together.
If a boy really loves you, he will go out of his way to make you happy.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 March 2010):
I think you would be better off without him. If he doesn't love you, and it doesn't sound like he does, you can't change that. And you don't want to end up used. Find a guy who wants you.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 I'm sorry but I don't think he loves you. He probably has you around so that one day you will have sex with him...then he will have nothing to do with you.
I know it hurts. Try talking to him about how you feel and if he doesn't listen dump him and get over him. Ignore him if he tries to win you back. He's not mature enough for a real relationship!
Good Luck!
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