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writes:I am so embarrassed by my breasts. All my girlfriends have nice ones with smaller areolas, but I'd describe mine as fat man boobs. They're pointy, with big aereolas and they sAg to the sides :( is there anyway to make them look better, and no I'm not talking about what kind of bra. I mean bare.
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reader, ilikedumplings  +, writes (20 January 2011):
I'd agree with the guys, we don't care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): My boobs were always small and awkward looking to me, however now, at 18, they just started growing again and are looking a lot better in my mind. However, in my couple of close relationships, the guys loved my boobs. They had no problem at all with the way they looked or the size. Even though the "beautiful women" on tv in this society are well-endowed in the chest area, every woman is not, and most guys are okay with it. =] No need to worry. You're still very young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Don't worry about it. You are normal....and I promise you guys are just as worried about their bodies as we are. :)
We don't care if their penis curves a bit or whether their smile is crooked. :) relax!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 January 2011):
 You're young and have a lot more growing to do. My boobs surprised me by looking one way until I was about 17, then pulling a 180 and transforming into a seemingly completely new rack! So, you do have time to grow, and your breasts may not look the same a few years from now as they do now. So be patient!
In the meantime, embrace your body (you are stuck with it) and remember that guys are going to love your boobs simply because they are boobs. They could care less about the size or the angle or whatever - they are just excited to see squishy funbags! No worries, sweet thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): My boobs started growing early and then abruptly stopped when I was 12. I still fit in the training bras my mom bought me when I was 10 (i'm 26 now). My boobs looked kind of like yours for most of middle and high school, but also with kinda puffy aerolas. So, I was always self conscious of my small, cone-ish shaped, breasts.
The few guys I've been with weren't put off by my boobs and all of the ones who got to see them and touch them never looked at them funny or said anything mean. They were content with my boobs as they were.
When I was 19 I decided to have my nipples pierced (I'd wanted to for awhile.) after the piercings healed, I was quite surprised to notice that the rings gave my boobs a more conventional shape and appearance! It is only an optical illusion, but the piercings make my aerolas seem smaller and less puffy. The only downside is my nipples stick out a little so I can't go braless.
Wait until they are done growing. Most women's breasts seem to grow out of an akward appearance. Even if yours don't ever look perfect to you, any person who you are in a loving relationship with will view them as perfect because they are a part of you! :-)
try to think of your breasts not as something weird or deformed, but as something unique...just like you!
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reader, sam44  +, writes (20 January 2011):
I am a guy and i seriously dont have a problem with size and shape,... dont stress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): there are firming lotions that claim to firm the skin up. And moisturisers will help to look after the skin but really not alot u can do to be honest hunny. except learn to love them and put them in pretty underwear. it always makes me feel better about mine lol sorry cant think of much else!
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (19 January 2011):
I totally agree with dirtball.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (19 January 2011):
 Without surgery, there's nothing you can do about the appearance of your boobs. As girls, that's our number one complaint. We're never happy with our boobs. Mine are way too veiny, but I just have to live with that.
Good news for you though, your boobs will continue to grow up until your early 20s. They'll get bigger, and your body will grow into them. Right now you're still developing into a woman so give yourself time.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 January 2011):
 Here's a secret from a guy. We don't really care, as long as we can play with them.
It's true. Most of us really don't care.
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