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writes:It's my gf's time of the months. I've noticed that she experiences pain to the point where she sometimes doesn't want to eat. She takes Advil and it works for her, I was just wondering if there was something I could do to ease her from what she's feeling. Reply to this Question
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reader, rayall +, writes (19 October 2010):
rayall is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks everyone :) I guess I'm just a caring person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Just being understanding, even though u don't know exactly what she is going through, understanding she feels uncomfortable, and very sore, giving her lots of love (if that's what she likes, some girls want to be left completely alone! haha) and doing little gestures. If she craves choccy, buy her surprise little chocolates. Or get her a heat pack to warm up for the cramping areas. Or massages. Or offering to do simple things like going to the store for her if she needs anything.
and like anon. 123 said, don't try too hard, just be normal caring, every now and then if she seems to be struggling, then make a gesture. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): There really isn't much else you can do other than to be sympathetic and comforting, It's very nice to hear that you're concerned about her, as not many guys really care or understand the terribly painful curse that is the menstrual cycle XD
Sounds like she is in good hands!
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 I face the same problem myself, and there's nothing much that you can do. Just try not to get on her nerves :)...sorry...i know sometimes when my boyfriend tries too hard to make it better it really irritates me because the poor guy has no clue about what to do!! Anyway, its really nice of you to be concerned...make sure she gets as much rest as she can and eats the right kind of food so that she doest feel weak..other than that, nothing much...but you're a good guy!!
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reader, The Realist +, writes (19 October 2010):
 There's not much you can do but there are little things that she will appreciate. Try to be sympathetic towards her through that time and be understanding. Also maybe a nice back rub may help her relax and feel better. It might not take away the pain but the pleasure in the mind can get her to forget about it for a bit.
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