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writes:My Friend's Grandad Likes Me I Found Out Because He Text Me Telling Me . I Dont No What To Do ?? I've Avoided Him Ever Since He Stopped Me On The Road Too. Please Help Me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): TELL YOUR PARENTS. and your friends parents also. if you have and older brother or friend. ask them to walk with you if you have to go some where. hopefully he stops doing that. tell your friend about what he is doing. and just stay away from him the most you can.
really hope he stops
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reader, welshbrunette +, writes (5 February 2008):
 oh!!! not good!!!
it's not a good thing he has your number for starters...hopefully you kept the message. If you are not prepared or cant talk to anyone; you need to text him back- tell him it is inappropriate him contacting you, you have kept the message and if he contacts you again you will show someone. If you havent kept the message hunny, just blag it. It should hopefully put him in his place...honestly though if he keeps on or makes any other move, you MUST tell an adult that you can talk to. It may not be a family member, maybe a teacher...etc but this is totally wrong of him. good luck :)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 Oh Wow. Tell your Mom And Dad today. Get them to tell your friend's parents too so that they can keep "Granddad" far away from other girls. It's really important to listen to your "Spidey-Sense" or that little bell that goes off in your head when you are afraid, nature gave it to you for a reason. You are a smart, brave young woman and I'm glad that you used your fear to keep yourself safe. Now, go show that text message to your parents.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Please tell your parents/teacher or some family member about this man. Keep any messages he has sent you as evidence also. Your not at fault here and they will see this.
Also make sure you are NEVER on your own near him and that you always have a friend or family member with you. I'm not trying to scare you totally but just warn you of what might or could happen!!!
Don't hesitate in telling someone about this - the sooner you do the sooner it will stop and be over. Its not only for your sake but for other girls also - god knows how many others there has been before you too!!
Please feel free to message me in private if you wanna chat further!! X
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 Let your Parents know what is going on. Don't keep things like this a secret. The sooner you tell your parents, the sooner it can be stopped!
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (5 February 2008):
 If I were you I'd tell my Mum/Dad and show them the text message/s and explain how uncomfortable you are with this. They won't balme you.
Does your friend know about this?
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reader, mizz_A +, writes (5 February 2008):
 you really should tell someone i think this man is a pervert and you should steer well clear as if you let anything happen it would end in absolute trama for your own sake do not go near him it is very dangerous if your friend is always with his/her grandad and it is almost impossible to avoid him i think you should consider a new friend for your own sake feel free to private msge me for any more advice hope it helps a little xxxx
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