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writes:I'm having big issues with my boyfriend. We've been rocky for about a month now. We've been dating for over two years and a half. We've never had problems before and now everything is just falling apart. The problem is that he has changed a lot. I accept that people change over time but his is a bad change. He used to be this really sweet, respectful, and caring guy who used to treat me like his queen and since he's been going to the gym, his ego has grown massively. He treats me very disrespectively and I know this isn't him. He doesn't do special things for me anymore and I've tried so many times to leave him but he keeps telling me he is gonna change. I wanna leave him but I wanna believe he will change. I'm just so confused. I want my old boyfriend back. I don't think all this time should all go to waste without a fight. I've tried talking to him using all approaches! Sugar coated, blunt, ultimatum, crying, angry, random. EVERYTHING!I guess what I'm really trying to find out is what sould I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 June 2010):
I'll tell you now, leave him or put up with this for the rest of the time you're together. You've tried to get through to him, but he's not there. He is not the person he was before. He is not going to change. A man will not change for anyone else other than himself, when he is ready. This guy will not change. Either end it, or accept him as he is.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 You already did everything as you said. I would let him go...he is not the person you fell in love with now.
He said he would change and still nothing. Let go and move on.
Good Luck!
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reader, lulu55 +, writes (23 June 2010):
This seems like a tough situation. but it seems as though the only way for him to change is if you actually get the guts to leave him. He will realize that he messed up big time and learn to change if he really wants to be with you. If he loves you enough then he will change and he if he doesnt change then it was better off knowing now before it got too late. But by the looks of it. I think that if you just let him go for a while and gave him some time to fix himself up again then everything will be fine. But you have to find it in you to let go for a bit. If you love him, you will do this without hisitation...
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