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writes:I can't hold in my feelings for my boyfriend any longer. These dreams I'm having are obviously uncontrolable...and these dreams are also causing my feelings for him to grow stronger!I'm having, like, sudden "cravings" to kiss him and cuddle with him...but I know that hes too shy to do any of that...and I'm too afraid of rejection to do it, too. I wouldn't be as scared to make the first move if I knew he was going to kiss or cuddle back...I know a bit about body language, and there are quite a few signs that he likes me...(well, duh.)And I just need to know some hints I can give him that I want to snuggle...or kiss him.We will be at the movies and then the pool on Saturday...but a friend will be around. She said she wont be uncomftarable with anything, so...yeah.HELP!
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 If you're already together I say just do it girl! It's what couples do, and once you begin to do it he'll begin to feel more comfortable with it and eventually start initiating it himself, he just needs that push of you initiating, to make him feel at ease with what's happening and feeling completely comfortable around you.
Maybe to begin with just hold his hand, a bit later give him a cuddle, then at the end of the night another cuddle and a kiss.
Good luck!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 So if this person is in a relationship with you then you should go for it! He is after all your bf. This is what couples do.
If you are feeling nervous tell him what you plan to do before you do it...or maybe ask him....for example "what would you do if I kissed you right now?"
Give it a try!
Good Luck!
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