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writes:My boyfriend is getting an arranged marriage. He is in his country right now and he is having the wedding sometime this week or sometime next week. I cannot even call him my boyfriend anymore, because he is someone else's now. How do I stop thinking about this and move on? It hurts me so much because I'm really in love with him but now it can never be. How do I get over someone I really love because he was my first real boyfriend.
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reader, AskSusie  +, writes (3 August 2008):
Hi sweetheart,It's devestating I know. It isn't fair that he became your boyfriend when he knew he was going to have an arranged marriage due to his culture requirements.Time heals all wounds. The best way to get over him, because this has happened to me, is have girly cry nights with your girlfriends and have them stand by you every step of the way. The next step is to find hobbies and start new hobbies with groups of people. It could be excercise, scrapbooking, cooking, etc.The busier you are with a support group, the better off you will be.Goodluck dear friend,AskSusie
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 God thats a terrible situation, you must be devistated! Doesn't he have any choice at all about this marriage? Im not too clued up on these things. I really wouldn't be able to advise you on how to get over this as its such a drastic thing to be getting over, i guess only time will heal, and im sure you'll find someone who makes you as happy as he did. All the best x
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