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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: i have been with this guy for about 7weeks now and i am really really happy and completely besotted by him but a couple of nights ago i tried to kiss his friend. i don't remember it happening as i was completely under the influence but now i feel so guilty that i can't even kiss him properly. i have a tendancy to throw myself at people whilst i'm drunk (whilst single) but i just can't believe i would do this when i've actually met someone i'm really happy with. i havn't told him and i don't know what to do.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 December 2010):
Lie about this and other lies come easier. I think you should tell him. And tell him what a good friend he has that they didn't take advantage of it. Then, you need to work on your decision making. It's ok to drink, but do so in moderation, where you won't make such poor decisions and possibly hurt someone you care about, let alone yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea, i know it ment nothing and it would never happen again because it was a stupid drunken mistake but i don't know wether or not i should tell him as it wasn't even a kiss. i don't want to add tention to a really good relationship because i may have drunkenly tried to kiss someone but at the same time i don't want to be dishonest. i've spoken to the other guy and he said he wont tell anyone because he knew it was nothing. so i don't know wehter to tell my boyfriend or not
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reader, Adorskable +, writes (1 December 2010):
This was his friend so the chances of you getting caught are high. People do dumb stuff when drunk telling you by experience, but you have to man up to it. It happened and like I was told in my post you can't turn back time whats done is done just learn from it.
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