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*alamicruder
writes:Ok, i liked this guy for a couple of years and i am in 10th grade and he is in 9th. At our church we're havening a prom in May for 10th graders to 19 years of age, I want to ask him because he can't ask me because he is a freshmen, but i am sooooo nervous!I know he likes me even if we don't really talk in person , but only on the computer, we're really shy.Anyways i am going to have too ask him in February or March .... and i don't know how to ask him! I've never dated I've never been to the prom, i am only 15 ! I'll be 16 in March though and he will be 15 in February , but someone please tell me how to ask him to prom, and what to do if he says yes and if he says no , i am so stressed!PLEASE HELP.
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reader, calamicruder +, writes (7 December 2007):
calamicruder is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for giving me advice =)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 What do you talk about on line? What are your common interests? If you both like movies, why not ask him out to one first? It would be easier to go out to something with a group of guys and girls. After a few outings, you'll feel more comfortable about going out somewhere as a couple. It will be easier asking him to the prom if you go out a few times before that. Boys are just as nervous about asking out girls, and he'll probably be very flattered. AND you already know that he likes you because you talk on the internet. I know a lot of people in the U.S. like to figure out a fancy, special way to ask someone out to prom, but the important thing is just to go ahead and ask him. Good Luck Honey.
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (5 December 2007):
Before you ask him about the Prom, ask him if he likes ten pin bowling, or ice skating, or snow boarding, or some other casual activity that you like as well.
See if you can spend some time together just as friends doing stuff you both like. Then at some point you will probably blurt out that you would like him to take you to the Prom. Certainly expect it to be not when you planned to ask him, but if you have spent some time doing ordinary stuff it will not seem too strange.
Whatever you do, do NOT ask him in front of any of his friends that he seems to show off or misbehave in front of. If you do he may feel that he has to react in some way that he does not feel.
I you cannot bring yourself to ask him in person, make up a nicely lettered invitation and deliver it to his house.
You may be surprised at the result.
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