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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'd like to know if anyone thinks if love/lust at first date happens?I had a first date with someone yesterday, and it was great. We got on as if we'd known each other forever, bearing in mind, i had never met this person before and id only spoken to him once on the phone before granted it was for 4 hours.we spent all nite just firting at first never got to see any of the 2 films, first we were play fighting, then he had his arm round my back and i had my legs draped across his, then we were stroking each others arms and playing with each others fingers, and then we finally kissed and oh my god, iv never felt anything like it before, i got a funny feeling in my chest and belly, it felt really strange and he felt it aswell cos he asked me before he left did i feel anything when we kissed.all i concentrated on was him, i've never been able to do that with anyone, im normally worrying about something or other to do with work, family, etc.He is so not my type, he's baby faced, where i go for bad looking boys, hes skinny but muscly with a 6 pack, i never go for skinny or muscly never mind a combination, and he's my height (mayb a bit smaller) and that was always my big thing, i never ever entertained anyone any less than 2 inches taller than me.how comes there was such an attraction when hes the opposite of what i like? and what were all the weird feelings all about? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): LOVE doesnt come in a certain package! Your ideal maybe the complete and utter worst choice you could make and yet this bloke has come along and he is just great. Go with it girl!!! Have a great time and forget about putting people into boxes and types, you have found a good one here, hang on to him!!!
Take care
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reader, flower girl +, writes (10 October 2007):
 I suppose i'm one of those that does believe in love at first sight, because i firmly think it's what it was with me, i saw my husband for the first time and i knew straight away we be together forever ( reach for the bucket) i know.
Sometimes we do fall the people we never even considered and thats just life, all you can do now is see how things go babe and the very best of luck.
Take care.xx.
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 Awwww...how cute:)))I'm so happy for you girl.
There's over 6 bilions people on this world and since we all are similar so lots of them must fit in perfectly with each other (wouldn't define it as "love at 1st sight" but the way we call it doesn't meter).Now,you had the luck to get involved with someone you do.Wouldn't want to seem optimistic but it might mean you finaly got to know someone who is "right" (you have similar way of behavior,sense of humour,communication maners etc) for you (your gut feeling seems so).So don't be affraid and enjoy no meter how long in will last.Best luck
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 There's definitely a lot of attraction here. Lust at first sight, that's for sure. I'm not sure about love at first sight, but you two seem certainly willing to go for this relationship. Why not?
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