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anonymous
writes:Hey,Okay so heres the deal, I have this guy who I like alot!! and really want to have a bf gf relationship with him, but I'm not entirely sure if he likes me, and want to be able to read the messages before sending out the charm and real signals. Just how do I tell he's into me? Besides the really obvious flirty stuff, because some guys do that to almost every girl.Thanks a Million to anyone who can answer this naive question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Well, all I can say is, he has to act kinda normal around you if he's an average guy that is somewhat popular. He talks to you frequently and calls out your name when he sees you.
If he's the shy guy that won't talk much he'll be even quieter and shyer around you.
If he's very very popular, you probably won't have a chance at him, but, he might hang out with you more and flirt alot more with you or ask disturbing questions...
That's the best advice I've got for you. ^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): okay. this is a good question because i am in the same situation right now. i know how you feel!!! i suggest you just wait until something happens.. like your friend tells you that he likes you too or something like that. and ofcourse if u see that he looks at you alot in class, just look at him back and smile. i really hope this works out for you.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 First, I think this question is not naive.
Second, thanks to those who deserve them.
"I'm not entirely sure if he likes me" - this is quite normal.
We are not sure about many things in life, but we keep living.
As to "some guys do that to almost every girl" - do you care?
Maybe it's already time for this guy to have a talk with you.
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reader, Dr. Surgel  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Dear Anonymous
He likes you, you know he does, I can tell by the excitement in your question.
To find out HOW MUCH he likes you, you're going to have to be just a little bit tricky: try getting him alone when you're both relaxed and listening to music or something, and suggest you play "10 questions", or "truth or dare".
Be playful and challenging and ask him questions like:
So, do you like boys or girls?
What do you like most about girls, describe your perfect girlfriend, etc. The trick here is to disarm him by being fun and friendly but not at all threatening. Flatter and tease him, ask him how he gets his hair looking so great all the time, etc.
Listen to what he tells you, because whether he means to or not, he will be telling you the truth.
Be careful how you phrase your questions (make them about him, not about you), and be just as careful how you phrase the answers to his questions.
Have fun
Dr. Surgel
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reader, dirtypirate +, writes (18 June 2007):
 just straight bup tell him how you feel!!! dont play games, if he dosent feel the same im sure nothing will change but you have to think about it do you really want to risk the friendship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): First if he looks at you and then looks away quickly when you see him, he might be interested. Second, if he smiles at you when he catches you looking at him, he might be interested. Third, go with your gut, It's always worked for me!
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