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30-35,
*hirhi
writes:Ok. I got a girl and I'm having a big problem. She thinks there are perfect relationships and i told her if so then I want ours to be perfect. And I want to try my best, but I know there is no perfect relationship out there. But i want to show her that it's hard to be perfect. Reply to this Question
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 no relationship is perfect u will lways have ur ups and downs a good relationship for me is if u trust that person u can talk to them be yourself no lies and u no u either love or really like and care for that person. if u have that then u are on ur way to havin a good relationshipjust remember nothin is perfect u may always have disagreements but its whether u work it out and still want to be togeter that counts. i hope everythin goes well x
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (4 June 2007):
 You havent really asked a question so I dont really know where to start. But Im going to try this at an angle I think you're stuck at.
You are right in saying that there are no perfect relationships. There is no perfect anything, period! But having said that, defintions of being in a perfect relationship vary from one person to another. Your perception of 'perfect' might not be the same as her 'perfect', if you see what I'm getting at. And her definition of 'perfect' might not be 'perfect' to you, which means it would be easier to be that 'perfect' boyfriend for her. I hope I havent lost you yet. You need to know what her perception and thoughts are about her ideal relationship, and once you suss that out, then only can you start making her feel like she is in one.
However I dont really recommend you do everything in your power to please her so that she can feel special. Just be yourself, and if thats too much for her to handle or if she feels you're not special enough, then I dont think you're in the 'perfect' relationship yourself!!
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