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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been wanting to have sex. We've tried a a couple of times, but my vagina just was too small for his penis. How can I stretch my vagina a bit to enable him to enter?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Lots of lubrication, foreplay...and take it slow. Try not to be stressed out during sex because that can clamp up the vaginal muscles and make penetration difficult. Sex is supposed to be fulfilling and fun! Even if it doesnt happen the first few times, keep trying. Dont insert any artificial objects into yourself...that might just end up doing more harm than good. Give it time, have patience and enjoy what you're doing...and most importantly, be safe.
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reader, sam44  +, writes (21 February 2011):
There are 2 possible situations;
1.you are too dry when he tries to enter you or 2. he is not aiming on the spot at a good angle. Try to use tonnes of lube and hold it whilst sitting on him and direct it inside you yourself. Goodluck
By the way, please dont force objects inside you, just dont do it, you might damage and loosen your muscles. the tight the better, remember!
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reader, Plexi +, writes (20 February 2011):
 Hun, being too tight is not a bad thing.................more men complain about their partner being too lose not too tight. Have you tried foreplay before he enters you? When you are aroused and relaxed, the muscles down there are more relaxed and accommodating as well. He can try fingering you or going down on you before he enters you.....etc. Your body is made flexible enough to allow an entire baby to come out so I don't think that your boyfriend is soooo big that he can not enter you. Try different positions as well. Some will be easier and more comfortable. Don't do anything to yourself physically because you might regret it later on...........If nothing works you can also try using a bit of lube to make entry a bit easier:)
Hope this helps a bit hun,
P
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (20 February 2011):
 I don't think there is a vagina that's too small. There is no point putting stuff in just for the sake of opening it. Stretching it sounds forceful. When it's ready it opens up like a flower, very receptive. You have to be so turned on and wet that you can't wait for him to be in there. The vagina walls should feel soft and spongy. Have longer foreplay. Have your erogenous spots licked. You might even find that pleasing him arouses you too.
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reader, Betherly +, writes (20 February 2011):
Have you tried fingering youself? Try that slowly and get faster and faster entering and pulling it out as you get more comfortable, make sure to wash your hands thoroughly before you do so. Also you could use an object like a dildo or tooth brush and move it in a back and fourth motion make sure this object is clean before you continue to do it x
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