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writes:ive recently found out that this girl i was absolutly crazy about doesnt like me, but we are still mates, i dont think that she knows i like her that way and we still hang out together but wen we do it kills me thinking that we can never be together. how can i move on or atleast stop feeling so bad wen im around her
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reader, urbanking99 +, writes (8 February 2009):
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As the two female responses have said - spend time with other people. Your friend doesn't like you in the way you like her. First talk to each other about your feelings. You will be surprised how good it feels to open up to someone.
Meet new girls. You're young, you have the time and opportunity to experience so many things. I'm in my mid 40's and am madly in love with my best friend. We have become very close for one reason and another but realise that if we to take our relationship to another level of closeness, it would detract from what we have.
I am having a similar difficulty to you in accepting this as I have not had physical relationship in nearly twenty years. Don't waste time suffering with "if only" and "what if". This is what I did and lost so many opportunities and so much else besides.
However one thing I know I have gained is the trust & support of a very loyal and loving friend who will always be there for me. Also realising this has made me more confident and that I'm not Quasimodo and can approach more women and just chat to them. If something comes from it - GREAT.
Life is fun - ENJOY IT! There is so much more out there.
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reader, Msblessed  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 maybe you shouldn't spend so much time around her like Emajayne said and go out with some other friends try to take your mind off the fact that she doesn't feel the same way about you
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 maybe limit ur time u spend with her...try to see other people and get out of the house! There is nothing worse for sad minds than staying indoors and away from the fun. Why not go out with some mates and hit the town? Leave all ur troubles behind u as they wont do u any good now.
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