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*shley_dawn
writes: my boy friend of 1 year broke up with me cuz he wanted to look at other girls when he was with his friends and said i just want to have my freedom back so he broke up with me. and then like 6 months later i moved back to the town my mom lives at and i got a phone call from him asking why i was not in town no more he went to my job looking for me and they told him i moved so anyways he called me i told him why i moved is i could just not get over him living 1 block away from me so he said well where you livin now i told him the town he found out where my apt. was come to my door and said i just relize what we had was real and that i really did love you and on and on and wanted to stay the night with me so i told him he could put on the coach so he did. when i woke up he had made this breakfest and roses and had the bubble bath ready for me and everything so after that we talked on the phone and things but never had sex are kissed are anything but like he down last night to see me and he asked me when he getting ready to leave if there could ever be us agin and i did not answer him and i mean i did love him but he broke my heart i was wondering if any one could HELP me and what thay would do if it happen to him!!!!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 So this has gone one of two ways:
1, He's tried it on with other girls and got knocked back and realised that you still like him and if he puts the charm on he could get back with you.
In which case he doesn't deserve you!
2. He met other girls and realised that anyone else just wasn't right for him, and you are the only girl that makes him happy.
This makes a more difficult dilemma.
I think you need to talk to him openly and honsetly, if he seriously wants to get you back he'll listen to your wishes and understand that you need all the answers before taking him back.
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