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writes:I don't know if this is just me being paranoid or whatever... but if you can help please do =)basically me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now.. but it almost feels like he's ashamed or something. I'm a school kid by the way and I get the occasional hug and kiss if I'm lucky yet out of school he's amazing?It doesn't make sense to me. What could I do to get it through to him that I would like... I dunno a bit more attention I guess?x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): If Yoour Boyfriend was ashamed of you, the chances are you wouldunt be going out, so i'd take that thought out of your head right now.
Mayne Yoour Boyfriend needs abit of space as in;; School time is where he hangs out with his mates and have a game of football, just normal guy stuff.
But then outside of school its just Yoou And Hiim Time.
Just try not to be so worried and clingy 'cause boys need their space to hang around with their friends.
Just think about it if you are with eachother evry single moment of the day your going to run out of things to talk about.
Maybe Just spend about 10 minutes with him at lunch? Then go your seprate ways to go with your friends.
Suppose he is just trying to balance out beinig in a realationship and Hanging with his friends .
LOOVVEE YOOU
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Sweetheart, I think the best thing to do is follow ur heart.Maybe taking him aside and talking to him? Whatever u do, make sure it works with u. Good luck dear. Peace out!
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reader, In Lovee With A Soulja Boii,,* Ily Ma Armyy Boi x +, writes (2 April 2008):
 this is usually normal for school kids. dont forget that this probably wont be your only relationship.so dont get too overworked x boys usually dont want to know the girls infront of their mates and thenn when its just you two then he will be all over you ! if you want to tell him then if i were you i would pull him to the side and maybe just tell him you dont like the way he treats you. just tell him how you feel. maybe he would understand and he might just change and be the way he is outside school with you inside school x
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reader, {*HyPa~AzN~hUnNiE~*} +, writes (2 April 2008):
 well, maybe he doesnt like expressing his love infront of other people. this is normal, maybe he things its a private thing to do. you should talk to him about it, ask him y hes lyk that. try getting his attention by going up to him and kissing him yourself, im sure he wont pull away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): hey
im a boy, and i think hes different at school because all his friends are around
i dont think hes ashamed of you. generally when im at school i tend to hang around with my friends, because i dont see them so much out of school
or maybe he gets embarrassed being affectionate in school, because his friends can see him. boys give each other 'stick' about their relationships.
example:
boy comes back from kissing girlfriend
boys friends: "ooh, i bet that was nice, wasnt it?"
etc etc
the best way to avoid this is to not get caught being affectionate in school
as you both get older it should stop
i dont know if this is making any sense
im tired and i have A-level english coursework to do
to get more attention...
i dunno. you could just ask him for more. at your age (it says your 13-15) i dont know what you could do
questions? www.myspace.com/rob_the_crazy_guitarist
i hope that helps. i probably just rambled on like a complete mental person
good luck
rob
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