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writes:Hey, agony aunts.I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we've been taking things slow, but we're starting to think about fooling around a bit. Nothing major, we know we're too young to start anything too serious, but I want to give him a good orgasm using manual stimulation. The problem is, I haven't done this before. I know a bit about penis structure, and I know some really basic stuff about male masturbation, but I'm kind of lost. Can you offer me any advice, techniques, or anything else?Thanks!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 You can find it online. Google the word 'masturbation.'
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (21 January 2008):
 I recomend putting this sort of thing off but if you feel like you want to do something for him its better to be doing this rather then full fledged sex. You are not ready for that until you are financially ready to take care of the child that could happen, and until you feel ready to do so without you other pressuring you. Im 18 and im not sure im 100% ready. But i guess use the guide that the other poster posted.
And if you feel preasured to do these things by your boyfriend and dont really want to. Tell him u are not comfortable then if he still pressures you then leave him you deserve someone who will care how you feel about the matter. I always throw this in this kind of question because a lot of times the guy thinks he is ready long before the girl does.
Hope i helped!
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (21 January 2008):
 I agree with daletom. I think you guys need to get to know each other a bit more before you get really serious and heavy petting. I know how it feels to want to do those things at your age but there's time for that later on.
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reader, daletom +, writes (21 January 2008):
Look at the recent thread "B.J's What else can we do, besides full sex?" at [ http://www.dearcupid.org/question/bjs-what-else-can-we-do-besides-full.html ] for answers to your question.
You are probably too young for this kind of activity - petting, outercourse, fooling around, bundling, or whatever you call it. Back off from the physical sensuality a little. There's still a lot for you two to discover about each other and yourselves as people.
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