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Is it really so bad to want the "label" of boyfriend and girlfriend?

Q.   Is it really so bad to want the "label"? I've been dating a guy for about 2 months and things have been going well, but he's doesn't seem to have the desire to become exclusive. I certainly never had the need to rush into anything, but af...

A.   29 May 2008: The label isn't "Bad" or "Good" or anything else. But a relationship pretty much by definition can only progress as far as the /least/ comfortable person allows it to. It's possible he's been hurt in the past, or it's possible he's afraid of c... (read in full...)

Can you 'make love' to someone if you don't love them?

Q.   can you make love to someone if you don't love them? if you don't love the person why would you say,"i want to make love to you" ...

A.   29 May 2008: It's a euphemism. A lot of people use the phrase to mean nothing more than "I want to have sex with you." "making love" sounds nicer than "having sex", but from meaning alone, they're equivilant. Some people may have their own meanings to the w... (read in full...)

How can I ask my best friend out?

Q.   I want to ask my bff out. shes female too. what should i say? ...

A.   29 May 2008: This depends somewhat. Do you know if your friend is attracted to women at all? Failing that, do you know that she's tolerant of girls who like girls? If at least one of those is yes, then just ask, "Would you like to go out to the movies?" o... (read in full...)

He keeps looking at me, does he like me or not?

Q.   I used to be really good friends with this boy and i really liked him as in more than a friend ( still do). For ages he would look at me and smile at me. I could turn round suddenly to find that he was looking at me. When we went on this trip...

A.   29 May 2008: Oh boy. It's never really easy to tell if someone likes you. But from your description, there's a pretty good chance this boy does. If /you/ like /him/, tell him to his face. It's a pretty liberated world these days, and we're allowed to ask g... (read in full...)

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