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writes:Ok. i have met this guy on the internet because it's really hard to find someone who wants a relationship. well the thing is im 19 and he is 16 and no matter what i do, his parents intervene they say tht he is a minor an ill call the police on you if you dont stop calling. the thing is he loves me too like i love him and idk how to get around his parents. sometimes i just feel like telling them off and saying I can be with him because he is above the age of consent.. but he is still a minor idk what to do.. i think i need a lawyer.. or something...
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (9 February 2010):
Oooh... you should practice EXTREME caution here. Even if you have done NOTHING with him sexually... all the parents have to do is CLAIM something happened and you could find yourself in cuffs NEEDING a lawyer.
If you really want to be with and see him, work it out that he meets you some place, like the movies. He can always tell his parents he's going with his friends... and you just meet him inside. If you need/want to give him a ride to/from home or something like that... drop him off/pick him up a couple of blocks from his house.
My advise though... is just to exercise caution.
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reader, dreamy17 +, writes (3 February 2010):
If you love him, nothing should or can keep you from him. Ive gone extreme measures for the guys i cared about. You should do the same! Don't let anyone tell you what to do or who to love. Nobody can tell you how to feel or who to love, because thats only something you know. They dont know what your thinking or the emotions you feel.
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reader, visione +, writes (2 February 2010):
 If he means that much to you, you can wait until he is older. At that age his parents still have a say in his actions.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Its best for you to go back to the dating site and choose someone over 18 and independent. I think you are being unnecessarily persistent with someone who is unavailable. Just let him go and move on
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reader, Angzw +, writes (2 February 2010):
Its best for you to go back to the dating site and choose someone over 18 and independent. I think you are being unnecessarily persistent with someone who is unavailable. Just let him go and move on
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reader, 738 +, writes (2 February 2010):
Um im not against gays i think you should be happy but he might not be the one he is still young and it might not be the right time dont get yourself in trouble just keep lookin for other ppl
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 February 2010):
Get a laywer or something? He is a child! Regardless if it's age of consent his parents have every right to keep him AWAY from you, that includes them having a restraining order filed against you as well as getting you locked up, and in that case you will need a lawyer! You obviously have no respect for his parents so why should they have any respect for you. You're an adult, find someone that is an adult to be "in love" with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): There's no law saying you can't meet him or talk to him. Yes he's a minor, but you're not running off to marry him! If he can't find a way to sneak around his parents though, there's nothing you can do. This is his battle.
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