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anonymous
writes: There are rumors going around that my boyfriend cheated on me... I am scared that they Aren't just rumors... What do I do? I already asked him and he said they weren't true but he has lied before... he can lie again. Do you think he is telling me the truth? Am I over-reacting about all this? HELP PLEASE, ANYONE!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni alredy know who and she is a BIG lair as well... that is what i am really having trouble with...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2010):
Stay silent now and watch every action he makes. You'll soon find out the truth. Watch for mysterious texts, times when he isn't with you and such. And ask around and find out why they all think he cheated and who with as well.
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reader, 738 +, writes (2 February 2010):
I cant say if he is cheating on you dating has so much drama only you can tell just wait and see what happens
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 February 2010):
How would any of us know if he's telling the truth? We don't know him, he's never told us a lie or the truth, we don't know his character. So for us to tell you whether or not he is isn't what we can answer, but all we can do is give advice.
So with that said; if he's lied to you before then yes, he could be lying now. You're not overreacting, any girl would be upset. Rumors fly around at your age, one went around about me that I didn't even know of and it never happened. So it's up to you if you trust your boyfriend (which sounds like you don't) and you want to take his word for it, or if you want to believe this rumor that could possibly be true. Try and find out who he supposidly cheated on you with and see if you can ask them, but make sure you don't start any fights, because this guy is definitely not worth fighting over.
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