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*ermaineh
writes:Why Don't I like girls anymore?I just don't know what has happened to me, over the last couple of months i have just lost all interest in girls. I have always been really interested in girls and had a high sex drive almost constantly, but recently it has really left me. I haven't really fancied any girls in the last 6 months either so now i am thinking i might be gay. But i am so confused because i dont fancy any lads either, i sometmes think some men are handsome but the thought of kissing or having sex with them repulses me, please help me.Thanks Jermaine
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
Don't start worrying. I seriously, seriously doubt that you're gay or else your sex drive and interest never would've been for girls in the first place. Finding some men handsome? Well, I think no matter what ANYONE says, nearly everyone can tell if someone is good looking - no matter what your sexual orientation is. I'm straight, but I know a gorgeous woman when I see one!
As everyone else has said, your hormones are finally settling a bit and your mind just needs to take a break from the constant barrage of women and the craziness attached to that. You're 16-17? I went through this at about the same time as you. Just sort of... lost interest in all of that. It was great because I pretty much just focused on school and college and ended up doing really well in school my junior and senior years.
I suggest you take this time to hang out with your friends, work hard in school, do any extracurricular you're into (sports, theater, art, music?)... a girl will come into your life and knock your socks off one of these days, I assure you.
Good luck and have fun, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, kenny +, writes (13 March 2007):
 I don't think you are gay, as you say the thought of kissing or having sex with a man repulses you. Just because you think some men are goodlooking dosen't mean you are swinging the other way, this is normal. We all from time to time do this.
As for you loss of interest in girls i would not worry, i think its just a stage you are going through. You are young, give it time, and before you know it your feelings for girls will return.
Good luck
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reader, Leyla* +, writes (13 March 2007):
 hi
dont worry bout it hun, by older bro went through this stage he went almost a yr!! he said that he realised that it wernt jus bout 'messin bout' and he felt he jus wanted some time out space. maybe this is emotionally or mentally what your thinking and feeling?
i can honestly say that sometimes, some people just need some time to themselves and having a 'break' as they would call it is prob for the better. who knows maybe you meet the perfect girl out of this experience and begin to get to know yourself better?
Hope everything works out for ya hun, message me any time if you need a chat leyla x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): Your mind probably needed a break. Sometimes we humans have to rest from our obsessions. Your drive will come back. Meanwhile focus on a hobby. Learn something about yourself or the world you live in. The opposite sex while important, isn't the only thing worthy of our curiosity. Take interest in Life. That will make you a more interesting person.
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reader, young mummy +, writes (13 March 2007):
maybe you just want a break from the whole girl thing! you know, just be free and single and hang out with mates. maybe you havnt come across a girl, where u stop and think wow! i dotn think its nothin 2 worry about. And if u dont fancy men, then i dont think your gay, i think some pretty, but it dont mean i fancy them
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