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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating a man for five years. He asked me to move two hours away and come live with him after one year. I have two children that were in high school at the time who I left with my ex to finish school.(I also had a stalker problem that swayed my decision to move too). I recently found out my boyfriend is on two dating sites which are current. He is very angry with me because I told him I didn't like it and I wanted him to unsubscribe. He says its no big deal he looks at them for fun. He has lied to me to my face on multiple times so I don't know what to think. I feel hurt and like he's just keeping me around until be find a better match. Am I over reacting. He says I'm insecure and he's not going to hold my hand and stroke my ego. I feel if you love someone and know that Isomething you are doing bothers them you should stop out of respect and love. He says that if I was secure it shouldn't matter. Am I wrong to feel hurt and now jealous and suspicious of almost everything? On yeah I think we've had sex maybe 5 times in the last year and he's always turning.g me down.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 Bullshit. If he needs something to do "for fun ", to communicate with new people and such... tell him to join Dear Cupid and become an Agony Uncle.
Something it's "fun " only if somehow it interests you- Otherwise ,you would not find it fun.
It can be he is not proactive yet in contacting girls and making dates, ,but if the right occasion arises,he will do it.
Stop being so gullible and don't feel guilty for your insecurity. It's not insecurity, it's both logic and intuition.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (12 June 2010):
 CaringGuy is spot on. Why are you not trusting your intuition? You just described a terrible man and an even worse relationship. If your staking issues are resolved you should think about moving back to where the rest of your family is. Don't let yourself be treated this way.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 June 2010):
Dump him. Don't even bother to stay with him, just dump him. He's on dating sites and won't come off, and you've not got a sex life. So either he's so closed in his head that he doesn't care, or he's meeting these women and getting sex elsewhere. Just get away from him.
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