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writes:Is something wrong with me? Cause even now that i have a girlfriend, i seem to find so many other girls more attractive. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I would`nt want a guy whom finds any girl more beautiful than i.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): You find other girls more attractive because they are! or can be, physically speaking. Maybe your girlfriend can't compete with fashion models that adorn the covers of magazines, let's say Peta Wilson? Not many women can. But you surely haven't chosen her counting on merely looks, have you[.] It's perfectly natural to admire other ladies, it's our inner sensitivity to aesthetics. Even ladies can admire other ladies. It is only recommended for you to do so from a safe distance though, since you are engaged and you owe it to your girlfriend to treat the relation with respect. A problem would be in fact to find insufficiency in your current relation, to feel trapped that you can't act upon your... attractions, in which case you ought to think what part of responsibility you share in this or if it will happen successively proving you're not ready to commit. That's hardly the case I believe. You just need to spend more time with your lady and remind to yourself why you appreciate her. And again don't worry, 'to admire' isn't in itself either good or bad...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni want to thank the friends out there who have given me advice and i can now say that am gonna try to concertrate on ma gal as much as possible.. bigups to all of you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): Hmm i would hate to be your girlfriend right now. Whatever you do don't tell your girlfriend this, not only will it crush her you'll prob get a smack for it.Ask yourself why you find this girls so much more attractive to your girlfriend?Whats so apealing about them? is it cause you can't have them?Ask yourself them questions and see what you really want.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): A lot of guys probably feel this way. Just don't let it get in the way of what you have with your girlfriend. It depends who you ask, but I bet quite a few people will say that it is okay to check out other girls, but to me it isn't. Focus on your girlfriend's beauty and all the things you love about her. And remain faithful to her. x
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