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He's stood me up 3 times, I guess he never liked me?

Q.   Why couldn't he have told me he's not into me instead of leading me on? So there's this guy that I like, I thought he liked me too. He told me he wanted us to take things slow. But he's stood me up 3times. We'd make plans but when the day come...

A.   6 November 2011: Yeah, forget this guy. He's stood you up 3 times. Enough is enough. Don't let him do that to you again. That's good that you deleted his number. Don't give this guy the time of day anymore. He's not worth it. He certainly doesn't respect ... (read in full...)

I adore my boyfriend. But what can I do about his rude behavior?'

Q.   Hey guys, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I do love him very much. However, I've really gone off him recently. He's rude to everyone. He yells at his mum and orders her about, he doesn't talk to my parents even when he is ...

A.   6 November 2011: Speaking as someone who is a lot older and has been through quite a bit in her life, I can tell you this: His behavior towards you (especially) and the rest of the people in his life and your life screams huge red flags to me. You are unhappy... (read in full...)

By having a dream about this guy, does that mean I like him?

Q.   So, I have been talking to this guy, L, quite a bit lately. He's called me a few times and we sit at the same table at lunch now. Last night, i had a dream that i kissed him. I remembered it really vividly at first, but now all i can remember is ...

A.   6 November 2011: A lot of times dreams are just our brains ways of working out problems. Maybe this guy has a quality that you wish you had? Or it could mean that you like him. :-) Don't take too much stock in dreams. It really could just be your subconsciou... (read in full...)

Ridiculous crush on a co-worker!

Q.   I have developed a ridiculous crush on a male coworker. We've been friends for over 3 years. We've hung out sometimes outside of work and one time even slept in the same bed (fully clothed). The night that happened, we went out together to see ...

A.   6 November 2011: Thanks for the replies. :-) And I wanted to apologize in advance because I forgot (it was late when I wrote this question) to admit how very high school this situation sounds. LOL. I'm going to ask him out for drinks. I just haven't had... (read in full...)

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